Monday, October 17, 2011

对不起三个字

最近在一次的事件上我有了很深的感触。
以前的我就是因为从来不肯让步,只要觉得自己没错,心里很生气。这样,
搞到自己跟家人不得安宁。
哥哥就是个例子,虽然现在大家早就不再生气对方le,但真的没话讲了。
然后我跟我的他,吵得无数次,前一天,
我自己心里很气,什么都不想去想,硬玩自己的电话,结果过了一阵子开始着急了。
想着我们之间的感情,我想啊想翻来覆去,决定去道歉了。
很多时候两个人吵架吵来吵去其实根本没谁对谁错,就像这一次,我俩都没错。
都只是因为对对方的言语很敏感,就越吵越凶。你讲一句,我回一句,你话放狠一句,我话洒伤一句。来来去去,大家都疯了。
这次,我想通了。
以前就是太顾于生气,太prioritize自己的feeling,都忘了跟你吵架的人是跟你朝夕相处的人,你的家人你的爱人也好,你都是爱他们的。
以前就是太幼稚。太不会想。
怎么可以为了一件你很生气的事就不做出让步,不去和好?

所以对不起,
有时不是承认你错了,
只是总有一方要做出让步,让两个人和好
我懂了

Friday, October 14, 2011

Dear blog

hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii my dear blog!!!!!!!
beeen long time im not here.
first:my maxis is toooo slow to explore any websites
2nd: i went out very often xD
there are really lotssss of thing i wanna share here :)
day before my uni life starts, i hang out with cuien again!
@ da zui ba near sutera mall,only rm9.9 with 3 hours of singing+one lunch,11.30am,such a great great deal :)
after singk session,went sutera mall and SHOPPING.its like few monthssss i din shop at all.million thx to cuien,i got to buy 2 dress @rm25 each.then we headed for desserts,a long day with her and i enjoy to the max :)

as for my uni life,so far its being okay for me, 5 subjects this year.
still can understand the lec+tutorial this 2 weeks,i hope i cn keep achieving this for the rest of the weeks until my final,please~
what makes me happy is I get to be in the same tutorial class with my gang:christina,tiara,yingshin, we applied this during last year.
Last year, I skipped alot tutorials for those sub which im alone.
its really suffering, i got no one to talk to, no one to ask except tutor,
feeeeel very demotivated to go for class. :(
so im really thankful for now i am in the same class for all sub with my friends
Friends are really important,with their existence it makes you cheer. :)

for my new house, well last year i stayed in our uni hostel, and they increased the fee so i decided to move out with my roommate-ys,
to nearby flat, 10mins walk to the uni,(quite far actually)
my other 2 housemates are great, eve-studying same course & sage-frm jb too :)
and, there's a TV here! yeah~~~
and i think i also getting fat, eat damn lot haha, with him, with his family
every after the meal my tummy is bloating obviously xD

lets start with this
kon used everyday.com to purchase this voucher (rm20+) original is rm40+ i think
Gem restaurant with indian dishes,location is stated in the pic below.
the voucher includes two sets of nasi briyani(you can choose fish/chic/blabla i fgt) and two lassi(yoghurt+fruit drink). I pretty enjoy the food esp the sauce,while he love the rice ;)

11/10/11, a day before his birthday, we went to this restaurant..called subak
situated at kl(i duno the add) its within housing areas, and those houses you see are big grand ones
kon bought everyday voucher too,this one is rather expensive,one set @rm40+(original rm80+)
the ambience is very niceeee, nature theme. and i think afternoon will be the best time to come here.

long time din pose this kind of smile, weee :Dwith his iphone(front camera)
with my samsung sl (the back camera)
ice lemon tea+longan pandan with selasih
popiah as starter(not included in voucher)
the meal which costs originally rm80+, salmon+oysters+prawn+salad+egg
i order this,(not included in voucher)around rm20 if i din remember wrongly.
overall, the dish is not that niceee, i mean, not really worth the price,
the reason why they can charge high price is probably due to the atmosphere+service.
bye subak

soo, its his birthday gift this year,again handmade by me,
give him during the birthday party on 8 october
i can tell he pretty likes it and im glad & relieved :)
then on his birthday-12 oct, i bought this 'choc and white cheese' at breadstory
wish my boy's wishes all come true :) stay healthy & happy,loveee.

random~ there are ducks at the lakeside lol

oops its 1.46 already and tmr i have 8am class,night!

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