a day with ahnny

heeeeey here i come to update.

i finally met ahnny last saturday!

the feeling is great.

our first time,only both of us :D
we just chat chat chat at roibo.
sharing each other's life.
for like 2+ hours..
then shopping timeeee,ahnny bought a shirt & dress.

i bought a game, mask, make up remover & a pair of high heels.

i had been looking for this kind of high heel for sooo long!

rmb it was so hot during chinese new year,

i kept finding and finding,but is either too expensive or when i determined to buy it,

it did not have my sizeeeeeee. lol

then that day we passed by a shop,then ahnny said got 50%,so i must thankssss ahnny for this!

we walked in, and i first spotted this one,but actually the front is not the style i keen for.

so i tried it,not bad.its the only pair,size 35! woops. and its rm35 also.

happy :)

outing is always so short.

we byebye each other and walked different path back.

i had a really nice day with penny =)

next time must sing k ya!

now is already end of july.

i still got one month more,towards the end of the day i stop working.

and salary is gonna out.can save in my cimb bank again :D

爱情就像放风箏一样..

风箏，抓的越紧，越飞不起来，鬆手了，却也飘走了。

爱情就像放风箏一样，抓的越紧，争吵越多，放开手握，却

消失殆尽。

有位女性朋友，她与另一半相恋於大学、相知於未来。
婚后幸福非常，有次不经意透漏一件事，也解决了我多年困惑。
印象中，她是个抓不住的小姑娘，总像小蜜蜂似的，东飞西窜，好不忙碌。
一直令我不解的是，为何她会愿意安定下来？

原来打从相恋开始，彼此便有个约定：不管做什麼事、在哪裡都要跟对方告知，让对方安心。
她一直很不喜欢这个约定，他认为这等於被绑住，没有自由可言，甚至对方是刻意地监控，因此总是「不小心」忘记，对方也总是顺从著她，不以为意。

相信年轻朋友也有同感，认为这种「关心」是一种变相控制。

直到有天，一如往常与同事小聚回家后，发现男友出差仍未回家，起先她认为没什么的，接著紧张手机为何无回应，最后甚至担心害怕他遭逢不测。
那晚下著很大很大的雨，她回忆说，就像海洋整个倒出来般，时间一秒一秒墬落，终於晚上一点多，他落汤鸡似的回家，她奋不顾身的冲上前去抱住他，哭著说：「我好想你、好担心你。」
事后，才知道男友因高速公路上车子拋锚、手机淋湿故障，也才知道自己有多爱男友、对方有多爱自己，才了解自己一直不懂得珍惜对方的好。
这个故事给我很多感触，手机功能要能防水外，更让我体认到：「爱，就是要让对方放心」。

相信很多朋友都有过这样的经验，总是抱怨对方事事回报、叨嘮自己，但是对方突然冷清下来，又好像失去什麼应该要有却说不出的感觉。

风箏，抓的越紧，越飞不起来，鬆手了，却也飘走了。

爱情就像放风箏一样，抓的越紧，争吵越多，放开手握，却往往消失殆尽。爱情，重在彼此信任、相知相守。

或许过度的关心可能是一种负担，但是适度的关心却是一种幸福。

忠誠/作風低調

腳 踏實地的哈密瓜，特別無法忍受胡亂揮霍的事情發生，非常注重實際性。在愛情上，要哈密瓜做出一些浪漫的事，相信是非常困難的，因為哈密瓜的你經常認為愛情 只是生活上的一部份，並不是全部，就算失戀過，也應該當作一個教訓，千萬不能影響自己的生活、工作，甚至家庭。不過最奇怪的是，在選擇伴侶方面，都非常挑 剔，要找一個能逗你開心的伴侶，你深信坦白是兩個人生活最重要的事，絕不可能有互相隱瞞的事情出現。

when i went upstairs and slide my phone.
4 notifications.

jiejie's sms
florence 4 miscalls
kon 1 miscall
yunqi 1 miscall

i just have to link it bk to horoscope agaaaaaaaain.
theyre all libras!
arent this magic?
libras love to call!

and im sorry for not picking up any of the calls.

经常有人问在朋友和恋人之间叫你选择，你会选择哪一个？

其 实这个问题是多余的。真正懂你的朋友或恋人，他们会体谅 你的行为，如果不体谅你，因此失去也不必太在意。朋友或恋人 是要互相帮助的，而不是硬性迁就。

真正懂你的会体谅。

from fb分享sharing

Communication & Connection

happen to read momo's old posts and i saw this.
So, basically, there are 4 types of personality or leaders in this planet:
A. Dove
B. Owl
C. Peacock
D. Eagle

Okay, I know these animals on the options there seems doesn't make sense of anything but they are. Animals are used to decribes these 4 types of personality.
A. Patient, slow, emphasize on relationship
B. Systematic, perfectionist, emphasize on project
C. Fun, emotional
D. wants to take lead all the time, wants to win, wants to finish a project quickly
momo's answer is peacock - fun and emotional.
i think that this quiz is quite accurate for us.

yesterday i started to close my eyes at 9.30pm on the sofa facing tv.
slept till 11.20pm,i heard mama waking me up.
went up and terbaring on my lovely bed. heeehee
sleeeep sleeep,woke up and feel the room is still dark = means still early.
so i slept again, but at last i really cant sleep anymore, and the room is still dark.
i thought is raining,thinking its 12pm dy.
and when i get down, i looked at the clock.
wosh! its 8.50am. so early!!!! hahaaa. such a long story for my 'wake up in the morning'

aha,then i searched for my phone, and theres a mesej, from momo.
yesterday 10.45pm.
fyi, (i copy yunqi lol)
theres somethg happened btw me and momo.
she used to dislike me last time and recently she decided to tell me frankly.
i felt really sad but then everythg is okay now :)
her message:

i learnt something today from the vibe and i feel like sharing with you.
i learnt about communication and connection in a relationship.
i suddenly realized that what i had been fully accomplish in a friendship relationship is only communication.
i did communicate with you by talking,msn-ing,facebooking,face-to-face chatting, but these are all communication part.
i seldom listen to you, really feel what you feel, listen to your views on something...
all i had been sharing all the time with you are my stuffs.
these are what we call the connection.
gosh...im not a good friend myself!

dont mean to post her thg here but i really like this message.
and this word - vibe, i din know the meaning at 1st, thought its like journal/book.
then i go wordweb - A distinctive emotional aura experienced instinctively
so its purely her thinking or can i say is感触。
i never really know this until she told me,
connection, i think i accomplish this with her,
everytimes we chat, i put my heart and i connect with her,
so when she faced somethg bad, like last time she was so down bcs of many things,
deep down i feel sad too bcs seeing her like this. and i tried all the way to ask her be tough.
by msn/facebook.
and she din really feel it,she din take into my words,and continue to emo there.
i felt angry at one moment. heey but then she finally got out from this pessimism.
i felt so relieved for her.
anyway, momo is suited to explore psychology.
shes still my good friend, for sure.

thanks momo for the inspiration :)
sooo, i had 感触after seeing her mesej

Connection is the only way to maintain the friendship.
Communication never get to preserve it.
and i think the key of friendship is the heart.
whether both parties are having the heart for their friendship.
friendship is seriouslyyy, never easy.
oooh, actually this apply on any relationship
所以，真正的友谊靠不了肤浅的沟通。

云绮

先说一下今天，六月过了，tax的日子过了，赶完咯。
还有，今天老板载我去另一个公司打ubs！
原来还有这样的eh，结果好巧！遇到以前跟我同小学的朋友。
其实也不是朋友。
她一看到我就问，你是不是读宽柔四小的？
我眼睛撑大，‘你怎么知道？’
看来我没变到呢。都跟她不同班，他还问我认不认识黄珍珠，
我就说我认识。但我认识的好像是珍儿。
珍儿还是珍珠，可能我都认识吧，小学的事还是有点遥远了。haa
总之这个经验不错拉。但我还是比较喜欢呆在自己的office．

好啦，回来回来。
现在会写这篇的动力都来自于云绮拉　=)
昨天睡觉，十一点半铃声响，her sms
没看清楚，以为是她说她update blog了，叫我去看，
今早再看一次，原来也要我updateee.heeeehee.
因为他明天就要上kl了，去读书。
时间好快好快。
在这个六月我们真的见好多面相好多聚！
开心开心，算算有四次吧！:DDDDD
ohyayyyyyy :)
我们去crab crab,sushi,game,shabushabu,icecream & sing k!
有够过瘾。
火锅真的very一级棒!希望下次还可以再去 =)

相信你很快就可以适应那里。
你是女强人ladyboss ma,没什么能难倒你。
愿你顺顺利利和享有愉快的大学生活。
话不写多，

you know i love you
and i will miss you,
hee but we will meeeet soon

used photoscapeeee again. ;) to edit our photos!
heee used up an hour for this short post.

jiayou jiayou my forever best friend
:) :)